I have been watching porn on the Internet since when I first moved into a dorm room. I have no shame in admitting this practice and neither should you. So, a few years ago, when I saw something so surprising on a porn site that it made me stand up, pace the room and throw my computer, you could assume shit got very real. When I was 16 and raised a lonely only child, my aunt decided to foster a young girl 8 years my junior, after a few bouts with cancer had left her without the ability to have kids of her own.